Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Hi Pastrami, Nice to meet you!

MB has quite the imagination - I'm not sure if the things she does is usual for a 2 yr old (almost 3 already!!) but regardless she keeps me laughing and entertained all the time!
One of her "things" is to pretend to be a character and we have to call her by her new name all the time, and she WILL correct us and even feed us our lines.... example....  "come and eat"-me  "no, say, come and eat Pablo"-MB "okay, come and eat Pablo" -me     
Yes, I give in to her feeding me my lines because I have learned that doing anything else is destructive!
So I thought I would share some of the interesting characters she pretends to be..
Pablo (he's a penquin that hates the cold)
Diego (Dora's cousin, and when she's Diego, I'm ALWAYS Dora and I need to remember my name too)
Baby Clayton (yes, neither Baby or Clayton will suffice)
Princess (sometimes baby princess, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Mermaid, and others I can't think of)
Dino (T-rex or Triceratops are the usual variations)
Woody, Buzz (Lightyear)
My favorite was this Sunday, she was "Prince Charming"... on the way home from church she kept trying to convince me (the queen) to marry her, and why wouldn't I? She's Prince Charming!!! But I resisted, as it would make Daddy sad, because I'm already married to him!
When we got home, she told Daddy "I'm Prince Charming"... he misunderstood "Hi Pastrami, nice to meet you"... but she didn't catch on and so now whenever she pretends to be Prince Charming Hugh just calls her Pastrami (maybe not as funny as I write it, but it keeps me laughing... I just don't have the knack for story telling...... errrrr..... now I have to go)

Monday, December 13, 2010

Party Life

Since I got married nearly 4 years ago, Hugh and I have lived a sort-of quiet, anti-social life.  I struggled with this change especially since I was so used to always being around people and doing something!  But I guess I also thought it was romantic, because we just both loved being together, and so although I wanted to hang out with my friends too, I loved that there wasn't anyone else we needed to see.
Hugh was a homebody and liked "quiet time" - those who know him probably just laughed - really nothing about Hugh is quiet... most of the time he is away from work (including his lunch hour at work) is filled with music (loud music if it's allowed!)  But to sum up how we've spent our time together in evenings and weekends - movies, strolling the mall, dates, the Medium series and now the Star Trek Voyager series!

Hugh was the first to branch out, which totally made me jealous - after ignoring and not hanging out with friends for 3 years there were no friends to hang out with. Luckily I still kept intouch with my former roomies Kim & Serena long distance - but when he had his Jam sessions, Bro's Night and Nerd nights I was always left feeling like a loner with nothing to do (pathetic huh?!)
Hugh encouraged me to hang out with friends and although I insisted that people didn't really like me much and that the friends I did have wouldn't want to hang out with me when their hubbies were home, he kept making suggestions and offering to make sacrifices so I could try to have a social life. (sweet guy huh!!)

Finally, things got moving.  My friend Lesley moved back to Calgary in the summer and she was always the social butterfly - so I third wheeled it and started in on some girls nights - it totally revitalized me! But then she moved... back to solo-Tress...

Basketball on Wed. Nights reached out to me too... but didn't really meet my social needs as I was playing with married men and was the only girl.... UNTIL my friend Jenny agreed to play (maybe only 3 times, but still it was super fun!)

Jenny is incredible - energetic and always doing something it seems! I don't know how she can do with with 4 kids, but it's been so fun getting 'in the loop' and getting to know the other ladies in the ward!
Seriously, I feel so lucky - i'm in the best ward ever!  The women I'm surrounded with are such examples to me and hanging out with them energizes me so much!.... is this getting cheezy? sorry - the point is (of this huge long story) - it is SO important to have good friends - no matter what age you are!  i got so used to thinking that it only mattered back before I was married and had to be bombarded with 'peer pressure' all the time, but truly surrounding myself with good people now is such a blessing and I'm sad that I didn't put the effort forward to do that over the last few years.