Day 8-Short term goals for this month and when you'll accomplish them

Ahhhhh Yes! Goals.... 'right, right' - Goals are one of those things that we are supposed to always have, and with a New Year having just happened we are all supposed to be really intense on them right now, right?!
Then this should be an easy blog...
Goal #1

This is ALWAYS the goal on the top of my list!  Just Survive! Keep breathing, keep moving....survive whatever comes your way!

Goal#2

Read books - I'm trying to be part of a bookclub - which was something that I never thought I'd like (and I do) or that I'd have time for (and now my children are neglected.. jks... Hugh is super helpful!)  So I'm going to give it my all to read more books and go to book club, because it makes me feel like I'm opening my mind... (I'm the girl with the glasses in the pic btw... that's my goal too)

Goal#3.... the usual.... workout... eat better
Goal#4.... Blog... we'll see how this goes... I think I have two followers, so sorry if I let you ladies down ... haha

Day 7-A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you

This is the person and the event that has had the biggest impact on me.  I know alot of people get tired of hearing and reading people go on and on about their pregnancies and all the little things that happen with a new baby - but this is truly a life changing experience!  Marybelle has changed my life!  I've always wanted to be a Mom and have always loved interacting with children.  Although I had experience babysitting over long periods of time, I never could really have understood what it meant to be a Mother.  It's beautiful! I am loving this journey I'm on, and so grateful for this lil' girl and lil' boy who are teaching me so much and changing me so much!  For those of you who are scared about becoming a parent - it's true, it's scary, but there is nothing more rewarding when you overcome it!

Day 6-Favorite super hero and why

This question for a girl... you probably aren't going to get a stellar reason as to why... So not really knowing or 'following' many super heros I HAD to choose Iron Man... the movies are recent and he's a big hit in my books!  I also really enjoy the actor - it's awesome to see the change from a rich, selfish person as he's transformed into someone who wants to protect people from the evil he was actually part of creating (without realizing it)...   Love the movies, and it's also got a pretty decent song..;.. so Iron Man "you're my hero!"

Day 5-A picture of somewhere you've been to

In 2007 I got to go to conference for the first time -truly an incredible experience.  I was lucky enough to attend 3 of the 5 sessions and this is the picture of my closest seat - it was truly amazing and my testimony was strengthened so much from 'being' there.  Especially when we sang "We Thank Thee O God For A Prophet" and I felt confirmation of President Hinkley truly being a Prophet of God. -Amazing!

Day 4-A habit that you wish you didn't have

It's pretty simple - here comes the confession... and maybe that's the first place to start to make a change...

My name is Tressa and.... I'm a nail biter.
I know, super gross!  and I think the thing that bothers me the most about it is that now my beautiful little daughter has picked up my bad habit :(
Now's the time for change, I've stopped before, I just need to make it permanent!

P.S. please don't tell anyone (or even notice when you see me) it's super gross and embarrassing and I'm totally self conscious about it!

A picture of you and your friends

Day 3 - a 'picture' of me and my friends - so I have visuals for you but also want to paint a brief 'picture' for you of my friends!

This is J-Ro and myself at YW's camp. She's an amazing mother of 4 and full of competition! We have a great time teasing each other and trying to manipulate each other.  I'm always shocked at her energy and how much she can accomplish, she is a true partier and such a fun person! As mentioned in a previous post, I'm really grateful for my friendship with Jenny because she's helped me become more social - I feel more myself around her and getting back into being silly and having fun has helped me be a better wife and mother.  She's such an example to me.

Kels-o is my friend inlaw (you know, how a sister inlaw becomes an automatic Sister?!)  She married Hugh's and my friend Warren and moved countries for him (from the States). Before I even met her, I wanted to be friends.  She's got mad cooking/baking skills and is always sharing her goodies with us.  Kelsey keeps me laughing with the little details she notices, and she keeps me on my toes (as I'm always trying to be aware of my little details that may be dorky).

Patricia, my dear friend from YW's and the good ol' high school days.  I don't know how we've been so lucky, but we've basically been adopted into Patricia's amazing family - we love them!

Sad to report, Patricia left Canada in high school so we've had to keep most of our contacts long distance, but that's what amazes me about our friendship, we've actually stayed in touch!  Patricia has two amazing (and Brilliant children) and is the most talented person (and her kids get to benefit from the funnest things because of her mad skills).  Patricia has the ability to teach herself anything (guitar, professional cake decorating to name a few) and become a true expert in it!  I've accepted that I can't compare, but I'm always being blown away and feel motivated by her example to be a better Mom myself!

Oh, Lonnie Mae aka Lou-lou (that's her self given nickname that I love). This is my Mexican Cousin - who I truly believe is the most loved person by everyone in my extended family.  To those who 'know' her, they probably would be surprised that once you break through her shy exterior she is the most wild, hilarious and interesting person they will ever meet!  I feel lucky that I've been able to know the true Lonnie instead of the shy girl - my childhood and teenage years are full of the funnest times dancing and singing (btw, she has a truly killer voice!!!) Everytime I'm with Lonnie, we get back into our usual silly interaction of singing and dancing (almost without fail!) Lonnie has a talent to make me laugh and feel happy. I love her!

Two birds with one stone. Here are Lesley (righty-tighty) and Eryn (lefty lucy) at my bridal shower.  Again, amazing friends - that's what we are supposed to surround ourselves with right? Well, I've been successful! I've known Lesley my whole life and always loved her and her family - and we seem to be on the same track as we got married months apart and then our first babies are 2 wks apart.  Lesley's super talented at making people feel comfortable and shows true interest and love for everyone!   Now, Eryn (my E.T. -eternal twin) I was so shocked to discover how similar Eryn and I are - We would say the same things, think the same way and have strange similarities.  I miss Eryn, and truly haven't talked with her for months, but I had to include her on this list!

Beautiful Wendy (Patricia's Mom) is one of my best friends! She and Eric, as I mentioned before have been so good to our family.  My children look to her as another grandma/nana and she's forever spoiling them.  Everyone feels loved around Wendy - she has a huge heart and is forever going 'all out' serving others.  She's such a beautiful woman inside and out!  Wendy is also an amazing cook/baker... and her sweets are out of this world - they seriously blow my mind, I never knew things could taste so good!!!

Serena and Kim - Roomies extraordinaire!  These two are probably the hardest to write about as we have so many good memories and times together and HOW can someone sum that up? Serena is a giver - she shared all her clothes with me (often dressing me and making sure I looked decent before leaving the house) and she even shared her room and bed with me for months (I know that sounds weird, but it was like a sleepover every night).  Serena always had all the boys inlove with her (actually, so did Kim) and she is a lady who speaks her mind, which is so funny.  Serena was the first to get married and have babies (her babies are gorgeous!) and I'm sad she lives far away, but whenever we get together we just 'pick up' from where we left off!

Kim is another true partier - she seems to make friends so easily and everyone loves her.  She and her hubby Mark are always doing something interesting (and I try not to be a stick in the mud anymore).  She is a creative person with great humor and although we too have a great distance between us (she lives in NY) we've stayed close over the years and I feel like she's one of the few people I can share anything with.  She's supported me through so much and stands as a great example to me.

I love my friends, and I have so many people that I am so grateful to have in my life. I'm truly blessed!

The meaning behind " T*Dot... the love story continues...

Strange Blog name, I know. I've always struggled with making up nicknames or email addresses (back when i didn't just use my actual name) So the T*Dot, became my nickname back in 2003/2004ish when I worked at a Golf Course - my friend and coworker Ethan was asking about my email address...  I was super embarrassed to tell him the truth (lovin_guys@hotmail.com which is no longer in use) so I told him I really needed to create a new one and he helped me... with tdotj and he always called me tdot from that point on - and i liked it  (it was much better than some of the other nicknames i've had ie.wolverine)
... the remainder of my blog name... the love story continues.... I decided on that part of the title because I'm forever sharing my "love story" (the story about how Hugh and I finally made it to husband and wife) and although I love our story of the beginning, I have high expectations for the future and have been loving every minute of every day... so really, for me, to write about my life is really writing about a cheesy love story (the kind they should make movies about)  ---- what can I say, I'm super happy and super inlove and super lucky!